1.25.2013

Rhythm

I've been thinking a lot about the rhythm  of life lately.  Apparently this is a Waldorf thing.  As I'm not super-well versed in things Waldorfian, I didn't know that, but I've been getting more interested in Waldorf philosophy lately. I know this isn't original, as lots of other people seem to be getting interested in it as well.  There was recently an article about a Waldorf school in the Bay Area where lots of Google folk send their children.  Google folk sending their children to a school where computers aren't used seemed to be enough of a paradox to warrant a newspaper article.  
Is it really that surprising?
We are becoming less connected to real people and real things in our lives, yet I think as human beings we crave connectedness.  I love the internet, I love my iPad, but I also love birthday cake, and I know none of these things are really nourishing to my mind or my body.  I hope you don't feed your little one cake everyday, and I think computers and technology in general should fall under the same principle.  Waldorf folk seem to believe this to be true, so I am going to do some investigating.  
I love Montessori philosophy, and while I do agree that it is the task of the young child to figure out the world around them, I also know that as a child I created fantasy lands so intricate that I lost myself (and anyone tolerant enough follow my orders) in them for hours.  Children seem to want life to be magical, and I'm not sure it is such a terrible thing to allow them a little of that magic.

Anyway, rhythm.  In my last post, I talked about trying to do a better job of finding that sweet spot for myself in my work life.  I'm hoping to do this not only so I can be happier, but also so that my mornings at work flow nicely together with my afternoons and evenings at home.  I know it is important for Juniper that we start to develop a rhythm to our days, but it is also important for me. I need to know what happens when I get home from work in the afternoon: Do I do my cleaning chores?  Play with Juniper? Put her down for a nap right away or after 20 minutes? An hour?  If I don't know the order of things she certainly doesn't.  I'm not talking about getting all rigid with our schedule and having no flexibility ever, but I do think that as human beings we crave some sense of predictability in our lives.  I'd like to think that it allows us to appreciate the ebb and flow of our days.
I've never been one for resolutions at the start of the year, but I've been kind of liking the "theme" for a year idea that I've been hearing about lately.  So not a resolution really.  An intention, maybe?  We'll see.  


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  1. I find Waldorf education to be intriguing, but I'm not sure I would be able to get 100% on board. I guess I seek too much balance for such an extreme view. I also like pieces of Montessori philosophy, but find that the children who come from Mont. schools to our Kindergarten have a really hard time working collaboratively... I still believe strongly in Friends education (otherwise I wouldn't be teaching at a Quaker school) but love borrowing from other 'schools' of thought. Have you ever looked into Reggio Emilio? I think you would like that, too!

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    1. I totally agree with the working collaboratively thing, especially since that is still a weakness of mine. Group projects even in grad school made me shudder, but they really are important. I've heard of Emilio, but haven't looked into his philosophy much. It definitely seems like there are a lot of people who use his ideas along with a "waldorsorri' perspective. I actually don't know that much about Friends lower school education, but more and more appreciate the middle and upper school education I received.

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